and then... 20s happened

 Hey, welcome to my little brain dump.

I think about my teens a lot. Specifically the era before I turned 18, when my mind was completely free, zero thoughts and an empty head. I was dependent on everyone around me. Life was just a series of random peaceful days where my biggest crisis was probably deciding what to watch next.

And then the “Pre-20s effect” slowly started creeping in.

It wasn’t a sudden slap in the face. It was more like a slow software update that my brain absolutely wasn’t ready for. By the time my actual 20s arrived? Game over. Ever since then my mind has spiralled so hard it makes a little rusty metal spring look perfectly straight.

 But honestly? If you can’t laugh at the most dramatic, existential-crisis moments of your own youth, what can you do? So here I am. No professional writing skills, no grand wisdom, no solid five-year plan. Just a girl, a planner that I try my best to fill out, and absolutely no idea what the heck is going on. 

Consider this as my official diary for the 20 core. Glad to have you along for the spiral.

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Comments

  1. Guri31 May 2026 at 00:34

    Yayyy excited

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  2. Nimrat31 May 2026 at 07:28

    GAWD!!! this was needed, someone had to do it. Thank you

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  3. Varinder31 May 2026 at 22:29

    You described it perfectly!!

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  4. Eva1 June 2026 at 06:43

    You had me at "slow software update my brain wasn't ready for." 😭Honestly this sounds like exactly the kind of diary I want to read. Consider me seated for the entire spiral 🩷

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